How does one succeed in life?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What I need from you?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

I’ve a dismissive avoidant partner who said that he’s overwhelmed by our relationship and that he wants to break up, how do I get him back?

That's it for today.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What is the story behind bhai dooj?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Does not procrastinate.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

What song are you listening to right now? What does it mean to you?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Could some kind lady post me a photo of her hairy spread pussy? It has become extremely difficult to find new amateur photos and I would be infinitely grateful.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Why is (n-1)(n+1)=n^2-1?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Is Daenerys Targaryen really the most beautiful woman, or is everyone saying that just to flatter her?

Ask yourself:

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Procrastinates a lot.

Why do women consider 80% of men as unattractive?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Do not set goals—set systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.